Tuesday, June 23, 2009

The journey


Wow life has been a roller coaster this year and I cannot believe that it is half way over. It all just seems to go by faster and faster. And then we sit here and ask ourselves where did all the years go. I am done asking myself that question. I feel we should not sit and ponder where the time has gone but enjoy the present moment and be excited for what the future is bringing. I am horrible for sitting around and wait for everything to happen and for it to all fall into place. I have set myself personal goals, goals in which I will strive to achieve. Our attitude towards life determines life's attitude towards us. There is no time to waste being angry at someone. And why do we insist on someone earning forgiveness. When you forgive someone you are doing it for yourself not for them. IF you are not able to let it go all it is going to do is eat at you, but not forgiving you are allowing them to control your life. Let them earn your trust that is what needs to be earned. And leave what is in the past there, it is not called the past for no reason. Look at life through the windshield and not through the rearview mirror.
I know that we are all going through something and we are all on some sort of journey, weither it be something large or small you have to believe in yourself and truly know who you are or whom you are striving to be. But you need to do what is going to make you happy. It is your life and you are the one who is living it, there is no time to waste on pleasing others. And I am not saying you should not be kind to others, but you should never have to compromise who you are or your beliefs for anyone.
I have set out on my journey and if you too have found yourself unsure of where you are going maybe it is time to step back and decide what it is the YOU want.

There is no better time than right now to be happy. Happiness is a journey, not a destination. So work like you don't need money. Love like you have never been hurt and dance like no one is watching!

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